DIARRHOEA

Recently, my second daughter stomach is not feeling well. She has a diarrhoea, everytime we feed her food or milk she will diarrhoea. That makes her buttock become red and painful. When we apply medicine on her buttock and she will lift up her buttock, that means she feel painful. We have taken her to a doctor and the doctor said that her stomach is infected of some virus, the doctor gave us some liquid medicine. And she doesn't want to drink milk with bottle, it's quite bothering us because we need to use a small spoon to feed her, that takes quite a long time to finish 90 cc. Hope that she will get well soon and want to suck her milk bottle soon.

IMMUNE INJECTION FOR BABY

Last Monday 30th November 2009 I and my husband brought our second daughter to Singapore for immune injection. We set off early in the morning at about 8am Indonesian time. Arrive Singapore about 10 Sin time, we take a taxi towards the child clinic usually we take MRT services but this time we set off a little bit late so need to catch up the clinic operation time, they closed for lunch on 12.00 pm. After done the injection, we walked towards the nearer shopping mall, it's quite tired walking because carrying a baby, fortunately I used a cloth to be the carriage on my shoulder, it ease my strength to hold the baby. The mall already decorated with many christmas trees , we have our lunch there, we ate in the eatery called Yoshinoya, they sell Japanese food, I like their soup, it's yummy. I ate while carrying my baby hehehe quite embarassing and funny coz looks like somebody look at me. Then we went to a place to pray for the Guan Yin Goddess and we do some shopping at the mall. It's nice shopping with my husband, we ate snacks and drink while shopping. We also bought some food for our elder daughter and our niece. Time goes by so quickly, it's been 06.30pm past and we hurry up take the MRT services towards the ferry terminal, we have to take the 08.10 ferry services due to the 07.20 one is already stop selling. So, we just had our dinner there and do some windows shopping at the ferry terminal shopping mall. Finally, the time for boarding to ferry, my baby is crying because want to sleep so I have to stand up and made her sleep, she will not sleep if we sit. The time goes by and she also sleep in my arm. Just a little while we arrived at our city, Batam. We took taxi to home, at home we felt very very very tired and sleepy. But I felt happy and satisfied hihihi.......

Waiting for next trip, honey!!!

MY DARLING

Today, it's the first time my dear darling, I mean my elder daughter go travel without me. My parents-in-law brought her to their relatives hometown called tanjung urung to attend their nephew's wedding party. I begin to miss my darling, usually she likes to cling on me but I feel a little annoying because she will became a crying baby sometimes when with me and become a little naughty. She will come back home on next monday, ehmm...what is she doing right now? playing with her uncle or watching tv or colouring her book. I'm quite worried about her because she is ill just now when left home but I've fed her some fever relieve medicine, I'd like to prevent her to follow my parents-in-law but she is keen to go there since a few months ago and my father-in-law said never mind so we let her go. Hope that her fever has relieved and be fine soon. I wonder whether tonight she can sleep or not without me.

Huixin, mama love you!!!

ACHING

Ouchh...my body feel aching especially at my back, maybe too tired taking care of baby and working. I need more rest, anyway I've decided to resign, I'll work until March 2010. Maybe later will be bored at home but at least I can do what I want since I have lot of time, can rest more too otherwise I'm afraid I will fall ill. So far I still breast feeding my baby, it's nice because we can be closer to our baby.

NOT EASY

Taking care of baby is not easy, we must know their habit otherwise we will be stressed due to dunno what they want because all they know is crying, but gradually after we get used with them we will know what they want. All our time give to our child, sometimes we don't have our own time to do the thing that we like. Maybe this can be done when my children grown up later, at that time I and my husband already grow old hehehe

HELLO

Hello, it's been a long time not posting. Quite busy recently, taking care of my baby and working. And a little bit lazy hehehe

My baby is almost 4 months now, she is cute, she likes to smile when we talk to her. My elder daughter become quite naughty and mischievous, sometimes make me very angry but sometimes I will try to love her. Maybe she still jealous of her younger sister. Hope both of them will grow happily and quickly.

Mama love you, children.

TIRED

My baby now is almost 3 months old. She will smile when we play with her, but everytime she wants to sleep likes to cry, I don't like. Hope that this habit will disappear gradually. Taking care of a baby and working makes me tired, I just hope that my baby can grow up obediently.

Kampate!!!

JEALOUS

Phew!!! bringing 2 children shopping at the mall is quite difficult coz my baby want to sleep always and I must make her sleep by carrying her all the time when we put her on the carriage car she will wake up due to the mall is quite noisy. And her elder sister recently becomes a crying baby, sometimes only a little thing will make her cry and ask me to dote her, I think maybe she is jealous towards her younger sister. I hope all things will become smooth soon. 4 days more I have to back to my work, I feel a little bit lazy coz already on leave 3 months. I don't know whether I can get used to my work or not, hope everything goes well at office and at home ^_^

SLEEPLESS

Hoaahh....sleepy because my baby doesn't want to sleep tight at night so I become security at night time. Meanwhile must get up early in the morning to do some works like washing the baby clothes, sweeping the floor, top up boiled water that will be used for my baby to take a bath, wash my child milk bottles and have my breakfast. Phew!!! although it's not to difficult to do them but it takes time, I must hurry up before my baby wake up. After my baby wake up I must let her has her milk first, I give her breastfeeding coz it's the best food for her, then I will prepare the bathing equipment for my baby. Every day like this seems a little boring without going out for walking. This month in chinese calendar is ghost month so can't go out bringing the baby that's why I just can be at home. 2 more weeks I will be back to work at the office, I wonder whether my mother-in-law can take care 2 of my children or not because 1 of them is baby, taking care for a baby needs more strength and patience. Hope that she can do it.

PARENT LOVE

This is my elder daughter, she is 3 years old now. She is very active and like to play around. Sometimes she makes me angry due to too naughty but when I look at her again I can't bring myself to be angry, actually she is cute, she just want to ask for our attention because we have a little baby now. Maybe in her mind thought that we only care about the little one and ignore her. But for us, it's same, we love all our child. We love you baby.

TIME AND TIDE WAIT FOR NO MAN

Now I can do anything myself, before that I must be helped by mother and my mother-in-law due to can't walk too much and can't touch unboiled water. Now I can take a bath too but only once a day, for washing hair must wait 8 days more. Hope that day come sooner. The Muslim is having a fasting month now, next month is their new year. How time flies. We must cherish every day, hour, minute and second because they don't wait for us.

BABY FULL MONTH

Finally tomorrow I can out from my room since I given birth to my baby, it's 1 month now, chinese people called full month and on that day we will give cake to our friends and relatives. What a long period for me but for other people that are not in my shoes will think wow so quick. Tomorrow I can take a bath again but I need to tidy up and clean my room first due to it's been 1 month without cleaning, it's full of dust, yuck it's dirty due to can't clean up room while in the first month. My finger nail are already very long, I want to cut it tomorrow too, I don't like having long nail like other girl. And tomorrow my baby will become bald coz chinese people believe that the hair that stick with the baby since born are not auspicious. Hope tomorrow will come sooner ^_^

TAKE CARE OF BABY

It's quite tired taking care of baby, it's been 3 years I don't take care of a baby. Now taking care of my second baby I felt a little depress since when she want to get sleep usually she must cry first sometimes I feel want to be angry but she just a baby how can I be angry. Now I realise that how noble a mother is, they take care of their children without any complain. I hope that I can handle this soon. At night I can't sleep well because need to get up feed my baby and make her sleep. Today is the 21st day since my baby born, a few days more I can take a bath, my hair is already very sticky and smelly, last night there's a fly follow me, I think it like my smell coz very smelly. But I can't wash my hair first only can take bath, to wash hair must wait until the 40th day. Pls let the day pass quickly. The most unbearable thing is my right hand fingers still don't have any feel since my pregnant period, the doctor said will recover the feel maybe in 3 months, oh my god, the feel is not good when you can't feel anything.

HOT, HOT, HOT!!!

Hot, hot, hot everyday I feel hot because can't let the wind blow on me and air condition can't be set too cold due to baby can't stand it. Everyday, from the morning,afternoon and evening my food is the same thing that is pork with ginger and egg. Sometimes I feel very disgusting but no choice coz can't eat other food for 1 month. I'm going crazy, I want to eat some vegetables and fruit, when I look at the pork my appetite disappear and I want to throw up, fortunately I have some beverages to drink while eating those pork otherwise I don't know how I can eat it up. Actually I hate pork but I dare not tell anybody that I don't like eat the pork that my mother-in-law cook because she cooks it with her kind heart.

Honey, please treat me better because I sacrifice myself for you hehehehe

DiSAPPOINTED

Today is the twelve day since I given birth, actually today I can take a bath but due to I'm in the air conditioning room so my mother-in-law said wait until 30 days, oh my goodness!!!
Old people afraid if taking a bath during the first month of given birth will make us feel not strong when we are old.
30 days still so long, my body already felt very itchy. My hair already very oily and itchy too.

Please help me.......

CHINESE TRADITION

According to our chinese tradition, woman that has given birth must stay at her room for 1 month. Can not touch unboiled water, can not taking a bath, can't let the wind blow on us or eat the cold thing. Everything must be done in the room. It's quite boring coz our job is just eating and sleeping, no wonder some women become fat after given birth. The most unbearable thing is can not take a bath, my body feel itchy and dirty, but fortunately can take a bath at the 12 day, 3 more days I can take a bath Hooray.....but can not wash our hair for 4o days, old people believe that our body will become not strong when we are old if we do the thing that I mentioned above.
Believe it or not depends on yourself.......

MAKING EAR HOLE

Last night I was very tired, my baby didn't want to sleep so I also can't go to sleep until morning. Today my mother-in-law bring my baby gone to make ear hole at the hospital, I'm scared because I can't bear to see my baby pain. When my baby came back, I saw her ears have some blood stain on them, my heart felt painful and my tears come down from my eyes automatically, I am an emotional person, sometimes just little problem can make me cry. But I hope I can be stronger, I also don't like to be a crying baby.

HAPPINESS

My second baby finally born on last Sunday that 26 July 2009, a girl. I can't describe my happiness when my baby born at that time, that was quite a hard time for given birth her, fortunately my husband was beside me all that time giving me support
. I can't give too much comment now coz I need to rest, will share my happiness again next time.


Thanks god has let me bore my baby smoothly.

TIRED

I'm tired today coz cleaning my room, bringing big stomach around is quite difficult in doing work. I'll tidy up my room every 1 week, it's already covered by much dust usually so after cleaning usually I will give myself a reward, that is a nice bath hehehe......

This morning, the eclipse seems amazing though I didn't see it directly from my place due to raining :(
I and my family watch it from the TV live show from China, many people were looking at it but it only last for 5 more minutes. When the moon covered the sun, the day became like night time. How I wonder the world has such an amazing event.

By the way, it's already passed 2 days from my give birth day, when will my baby come to me I wonder......

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ECLIPSE

22nd July is the day of world century Eclipse. People all of the world are looking towards it. What will happen if suddenly our world become dark?

How long will it take, I wonder. Why this kind of event happen? only god knows about it. 2 more days this event will happen, be patient to wait for it.

Born day

I'm waiting and waiting for my second baby born day. I've been on leave from my job for almost 1 month. It's quite boring staying at home although I have another child to take care.

When at night, my baby always does exercise in my stomach seems that she also want to come out quickly hehehe....

My appetite become not too good recently, maybe the give birth day is near coming.

The bomb that happened in Jakarta was very scary, why the bomber don't have conscience at all, in their mind is it one person life is nothing, they only think about their own business. Hope all the victims can be received well in the heaven.

Dream, dream, dream

Last night I have 3 dreams, the first one was selling ice kacang at school or where, the dream was not clear. Many people bought from me hehehe....


The second one is dreaming of my relatives, my uncle scolded his daughter-in-law coz of something, I forgot hohoho.....


The third one, it's the disgusting one, dream that my boss gone to booking girl at a hotel, yuck. Shhhhhh....don't tell anyone hihihi.....

Dream, dream, dream

NIGHTMARE

Every night can't sleep well coz always has nightmare, maybe this is the habit of pregnant woman but it's tired and scary. Sometimes dream of monster or scary things or being scolded by boss hahaha......

And not just that, beside nightmare I also can't turn to sleep directly when all other people have turned to sleep, I don't know why the head full of thinking, don't let me sleep.

STORY OF MY LIFE

This is the first time I enter the world of Blogger, if there’s anything not good please don’t mind. I would like to share my experience and story since I was a child. I was born in Tanjung Pinang, a little town in Riau Region - Indonesia. But my living place since child is an island called Galang Island. At that time, there were only 2 families living there, one is my family and the other one is my uncle’s family. I have 2 younger brothers and 2 younger sisters. My father was a fisherman and owned a charcoal business too. Our life is quite good at that time. My mother was a housewife. My father usually went to work at the evening with his workers and came back at night time, the fish they caught called “bilis” it’s a kind of small fish. The workers will took down the fishes and put them into the warehouse and dry them under the sun the other day. When dried, those fishes must be refined manually with man power due to they are mixed with other kind of small fishes, usually we also helped in the refining. Our school was in other island that was located opposite our island, it’s called Tanjung Pengapit. To reach this island, our father need to use a small ship to send us to school if there’s high tide, but if it’s low tide, we were forced to use a small boat called “sampan”. Sometimes, we were late to school due to it was very difficult to row the boat on the low tide water. Sometimes we can see the sea creatures such as sea stars walking in the water because the height of the water was not over than 50 cm if in low tide condition. These were my life story until I was 11 years old, we moved to Tanjung Pinang leaving our beloved island when I was 12 years old. Not long after that, my father passed away in an motorcycle accident due to he just learned of it. Since that time, we lived without our father love. Time and tide wait for no man, I have been graduated from high school, then I traveled to Batam Island, also an Indonesia territory, from there I started my new life story. My first job was a shop keeper that was recommended by my friend. At that time, I lived with my aunt in her rented room. I only work at the shop for 2 months coz my aunt asked me to quit, she asked me to work at a company. As her wish, I went to work at the company, in fact I don’t like working in an office. Meanwhile, I still work part time at my first working place ( the shop ). At that place I met my husband, he also owned a shop there. 8 months passed, in the end I quit from the first company job and applied another company job again that was recommended by my husband friend’s girlfriend. 3 years passed, I married with my husband and then we are given a cute daughter. Day by day passed, I have been working at my second company for 7 years. Now I’m having the second child and waiting for her coming on this month ( July ).