Kamis, 27 Agustus 2009

TIME AND TIDE WAIT FOR NO MAN

Now I can do anything myself, before that I must be helped by mother and my mother-in-law due to can't walk too much and can't touch unboiled water. Now I can take a bath too but only once a day, for washing hair must wait 8 days more. Hope that day come sooner. The Muslim is having a fasting month now, next month is their new year. How time flies. We must cherish every day, hour, minute and second because they don't wait for us.

Sabtu, 22 Agustus 2009

BABY FULL MONTH


Finally tomorrow I can out from my room since I given birth to my baby, it's 1 month now, chinese people called full month and on that day we will give cake to our friends and relatives. What a long period for me but for other people that are not in my shoes will think wow so quick. Tomorrow I can take a bath again but I need to tidy up and clean my room first due to it's been 1 month without cleaning, it's full of dust, yuck it's dirty due to can't clean up room while in the first month. My finger nail are already very long, I want to cut it tomorrow too, I don't like having long nail like other girl. And tomorrow my baby will become bald coz chinese people believe that the hair that stick with the baby since born are not auspicious. Hope tomorrow will come sooner ^_^

Sabtu, 15 Agustus 2009

TAKE CARE OF BABY

It's quite tired taking care of baby, it's been 3 years I don't take care of a baby. Now taking care of my second baby I felt a little depress since when she want to get sleep usually she must cry first sometimes I feel want to be angry but she just a baby how can I be angry. Now I realise that how noble a mother is, they take care of their children without any complain. I hope that I can handle this soon. At night I can't sleep well because need to get up feed my baby and make her sleep. Today is the 21st day since my baby born, a few days more I can take a bath, my hair is already very sticky and smelly, last night there's a fly follow me, I think it like my smell coz very smelly. But I can't wash my hair first only can take bath, to wash hair must wait until the 40th day. Pls let the day pass quickly. The most unbearable thing is my right hand fingers still don't have any feel since my pregnant period, the doctor said will recover the feel maybe in 3 months, oh my god, the feel is not good when you can't feel anything.

Senin, 10 Agustus 2009

HOT, HOT, HOT!!!

Hot, hot, hot everyday I feel hot because can't let the wind blow on me and air condition can't be set too cold due to baby can't stand it. Everyday, from the morning,afternoon and evening my food is the same thing that is pork with ginger and egg. Sometimes I feel very disgusting but no choice coz can't eat other food for 1 month. I'm going crazy, I want to eat some vegetables and fruit, when I look at the pork my appetite disappear and I want to throw up, fortunately I have some beverages to drink while eating those pork otherwise I don't know how I can eat it up. Actually I hate pork but I dare not tell anybody that I don't like eat the pork that my mother-in-law cook because she cooks it with her kind heart.

Honey, please treat me better because I sacrifice myself for you hehehehe

Kamis, 06 Agustus 2009

DiSAPPOINTED

Today is the twelve day since I given birth, actually today I can take a bath but due to I'm in the air conditioning room so my mother-in-law said wait until 30 days, oh my goodness!!!
Old people afraid if taking a bath during the first month of given birth will make us feel not strong when we are old.
30 days still so long, my body already felt very itchy. My hair already very oily and itchy too.

Please help me.......

Senin, 03 Agustus 2009

CHINESE TRADITION

According to our chinese tradition, woman that has given birth must stay at her room for 1 month. Can not touch unboiled water, can not taking a bath, can't let the wind blow on us or eat the cold thing. Everything must be done in the room. It's quite boring coz our job is just eating and sleeping, no wonder some women become fat after given birth. The most unbearable thing is can not take a bath, my body feel itchy and dirty, but fortunately can take a bath at the 12 day, 3 more days I can take a bath Hooray.....but can not wash our hair for 4o days, old people believe that our body will become not strong when we are old if we do the thing that I mentioned above.
Believe it or not depends on yourself.......